Thank you for sharing, Candice. I feel that true third space is one that has no barrier of entry and is easily accessible to everyone regardless of their background. That excludes cafés, bars, and the like as you are expected to at least buy a drink (which can get pricey!) and are discouraged from lingering. The only ones that seem to fit the bill are libraries or community centers, as they tend to exist even in the smallest of towns and are safe spaces for anyone. For this reason, recent movements to defund libraries have been sad to see.
People, especially those working remotely where the lines of "work" and "home" can blur, must be very intentional about setting aside that time to go out and socialize or engage in hobbies. These are important acts of self-care that can help prevent burnout from your work. I engage in my third life by participating in interest groups and seeking out local events, attending by myself or with friends. I also try to make a habit of saying "yes" to plans if I am available, even when I am not in the mood. I end up having a pleasant time anyway!
Wishing you all the best in meeting your New Year resolution, and looking forward to hearing updates!
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Kayla Anderson
Veterinary Social Worker
Program for Pet Health Equity
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