My cat has had a major change in behavior and I’m just looking for some suggestions/thoughts/ideas. My parents (especially my mom, who is now scared of the cat) are ready to rehome her.
About my cat (Baby):
-We adopted her when she was about 6 months old.
-She is now 6 years old.
-She is spayed.
-She’s listed as a domestic longhair, though she looks remarkably similar to a Nebelung (long gray fur; green eyes; though she’s not quite so long as Nebelung’s tend to be described).
Behavior changes:
-She no longer likes to be groomed. She used to love to have her fur brushed. Now, she lays there and growls almost the whole time (she tolerates it for about the first minute) and will eventually bite. I feel so bad, because she’s full of dead fur that needs to be brushed out, but she won’t let anyone do it.
-She will walk around, meowing, growling, and hissing. Every now and then, she’ll turn abruptly and bite whoever is near her.
-She used to cuddle with our other cats. Now, she barely tolerates them being near her. If they just pass in her vicinity, she hisses at them and sometimes swipes at them. For some reason, the only time she doesn’t do anything is when the other cats come to eat. Their food is on a bench so the dog can’t get to it, and Baby likes to curl up on the bench next to the food bowl. She lets the other two cats (both male; both neutered) up there to eat while she’s up there with no problem.
-She has started peeing in odd places. Usually, she pees on rugs or piles of towels/clothing, though one time she did just squat and pee on the tile outside the room where their food is.
-I have taken her to the vet. They treated her for a UTI, but when that didn’t fix the problem, they said it sounds behavioral and gave us some medicine to try. It’s a “chill pill” that is supposed to help with stress/anxiety/etc. called Buspirone. She’s been on that a couple of days and it seems to have made things worse (though I don’t know how quickly the medicine is supposed to work or if it might be normal for it make things worse before making them better).
-She acts like she wants to be in your lap and rubbed, but whenever we do, she ends up biting us. Sometimes she’ll bite when we’re petting her, sometimes she’ll bite when we aren’t even touching her.
-She has started spraying various places around the house.
Anything helpful anyone has to offer would be greatly appreciated. We are going to order the Feliway plug-in and see if that helps anything. Let me know if there’s any other information about Baby that I can give that would helpful. Thanks in advance!
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