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  • 1.  Thank you Maddie's Pet Forum!

    Posted 09-28-2022 02:08 PM

     This is a long post, but i'm so grateful for Maddie's Pet Forum and want to share my story. I first learned about Joe when @Rebecca Genauer from Northern CA Boxer Rescue posted a message asking for help because  8 year old Joe was in a boarding facility after his family lost their home in the Paradise, CA fire.  Joe was doing very poorly- responding aggressively to most people who attempted to interact with him. 

    I decided to foster Joe. I've always been a fan of Boxers, and love their happy go lucky attitudes and playful personalities, but would never buy one.  So Joe came into my life. The boarding facility put him into the back of my car for me because initially i couldn't get near him.  Here's Joe on the ride home, looking at me warily.

     By the time we stopped on the long drive, to buy him a collar and leash, Joe was still very worried but he clearly wanted to be my best friend. I didn't know it yet, but he already knew he was never letting me go.


    From that moment on, Joe wanted nothing more than to be near me. He was so very playful and loving and funny; a joy to have around.


    My two big boys weren't sure about each other at first, but coexisted peacefully.


    I talked to his previous family, who had only had him about 1.5 years. They had adopted him from Wags n' Whiskers after a last chance plea to find him a home. Joe had pretty significant separation anxiety, but I understood why – so much change and disruption in his life.  Ultimately, Nor Cal Boxer Rescue couldn't take him into their program because his aggressive behavior toward strangers persisted in my home, and his previous family couldn't take him back. I've fostered lots of dogs over the years and really really really didn't need another dog - i already had 4 other dogs at the time. For a short time, i attempted to find Joe a home on my own. However, i quickly realized that i couldn't bear the thought of Joe potentially failing in yet another home (i was at least his third) or biting someone.  So i made the decision to keep him!


    He was so photogenic, so expressive, and had SO much personality.

     
    Joe was a cherished member of our family for almost four years, and we couldn't have asked for a better dog. He loved us, balloons, and my other dogs. He was my son's buddy and protector.

     

     He wasn't perfect.  He couldn't be around people he didn't know and had his share of health problems, but he always bounced back until this final round. He started having seizures about two years ago and last weekend it became apparent he had something serious going on his brain and his quality of life declined enough that it was time to let him go. We said a final goodbye to our beloved Joe-Joe on September 26.

     

    Thank you, Rebecca and Maddie's Pet Forum, so much.  

     

    Sheila


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    Sheila Segurson, DVM
    Diplomate, American College of Veterinary Behaviorists
    Director of Outreach and Research
    Maddie's Fund
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  • 2.  RE: Thank you Maddie's Pet Forum!

    Posted 09-29-2022 07:39 AM
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your handsome Joe, but - wow - thank you for giving him such a wonderful life  in his final years.  He deserved to be kept safe and feel love, and I'm so grateful you were able to offer him all that he needed.  His happy face in those photos tells that he was very appreciative.  Sending you and your family a hug.

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    Rebecca Genauer
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  • 3.  RE: Thank you Maddie's Pet Forum!

    Posted 09-30-2022 05:04 AM
    Tears welling in my eyes, Dr. Sheila.

    There is special "place" for those who love and care for the "under dogs" like Joe.
    May your heart find peace having seen him through  so that once healed your are ready for the next underdog who needs you.

    Susan Murphy

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    susan murphy
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  • 4.  RE: Thank you Maddie's Pet Forum!

    Posted 10-01-2022 09:21 AM


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    alison gibson
    Senior Media Specialist
    Maddie's Fund
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  • 5.  RE: Thank you Maddie's Pet Forum!

    Posted 10-04-2022 10:25 AM

    Susan,

    There's definitely a lot of us on here who have a special place in our hearts for dogs like Joe.  Thanks for your kind words.

    Sheila

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    Sheila Segurson, DVM
    Diplomate, American College of Veterinary Behaviorists
    Director of Outreach and Research
    Maddie's Fund
    9258608284
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  • 6.  RE: Thank you Maddie's Pet Forum!

    Posted 10-05-2022 03:54 PM
    Hi Sheila,

    You  were able to earn Joe's trust because you have THE BIGGEST heart! I still remember when you had accepted the fact that he was a part of your family after some time. You gave him a great home for 4 years, and I'm glad I got to meet him!

    Many condolences,
    Irene

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    Irene Chansawang
    Grants Specialist
    Maddie's Fund
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