Completely understand the fear, but thankfully your dog will be in good hands. I agree with all that the others suggested. I've done several TPLO, FHO, and other orthopedic surgeries, and the best thing to do is what the doctor suggests and reach out with any worries. They are well versed, understand your concerns, and the surgeon will put your dog's well being first. One thing I'd suggest is getting plenty of stimulating toys since there is so much crate time. Treats for entering crate, doing rehab, etc help a lot with positive reinforcement. If you have a PT around, it's always beneficial and it gets them some activity, mental stimulation and out of their crate for a while, as well as a physical benefits. One thing to consider, if possible, is to go up a crate size b/c the e-collars take up a lot of room and they'll bang it around on the sides of the crate. A larger size helps them maneuver better and lessen stress. Hang in there - I know it's intimidating but you'll get in a routine and all will go great!
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Allison Rathert
Founder/President
k9.5 Rescue
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