I was a little confused by your post, but I think you were saying that you foster for a rescue. You could try to talk to the rescue to see if they could find another foster for him. Maybe even offer to foster a more adoptable dog.
Another option is to try to work on the behavior. If the dog is reactive to other dogs, is there a way you can help socialize him to make him more adoptable?
You seemed to have picked up a negative sentiment about the dog over the 3 years. The dog may be stressing you out, and if so, he may be picking up on that negative energy. A foster dog and a foster need to be a right fit for each other, so maybe he just isn't a good fit for you at the moment. There might be someone else out there willing to give him a fresh start. When fostering, communication with the organization is key, even (and I'd say especially) if the sentiment is negative. I wish you the best and hope the situation gets rectified.
Original Message:
Sent: 10-02-2025 07:26 AM
From: Anonymous Member
Subject: Come Be in Community With Us - Community Conversations '25-'26
This message was posted by a user wishing to remain anonymous
I think that in todays situation people dump the dogs because they have no other option. Rescues are over capacity as well as shelters. Posting online doesn't bring adopters either.
I'm a rescue. I have currently a foster for over 3 years. It's a dog that i don't see him being adopted ever. I contacted sanctuaries and most didn't even bothered to respond. This is not an aggressive dog although the impression he made and his color and size making people uncomfortable around him.
I'm at the end of my rope. I know that a shelter is a death sentence for him. But i want my life back.
Can we talk about options for that type of dogs wether it's a privet person struggling or a rescue.
Original Message:
Sent: 10-01-2025 09:32 PM
From: Johanna Spielman
Subject: Come Be in Community With Us - Community Conversations '25-'26
I would love to see something on why people dump animals, whether at a shelter's gate or otherwise, and how we can change this. I know there are various reasons, steep surrender fees, fear of judgment, etc. This also ties in with shelter intervention programs, the goal being to keep animals out of the shelters, but how do we bridge the gap so people don't feel like their only option is to abandon their pet(s), animals they found but can't keep, or "accidental" litters, etc.?
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Sincerely,
Johanna Spielman
Founder of Jamie Brianna's Legacy Fund
https://jamiebriannaslegacyfund.org/
Original Message:
Sent: 07-23-2025 08:14 AM
From: Sheila Kouhkan
Subject: Come Be in Community With Us - Community Conversations '25-'26
Hello everyone!
I'm thrilled to share that I'll be your host for the upcoming season of Community Conversations, starting August 4, 2025! If you have not registered for the new season, please make sure to register via this new Zoom registration page.
I can't wait to be in community with all of you (almost) every Monday as we continue learning, growing, and supporting one another in this work we care so deeply about. There are some exciting updates this season to help make our time together even more impactful.
✨ What's new?
Fresh faces joining me as co-hosts
Call topics and key takeaways announced in advance to help with planning for you and your teams
More discussions on Maddie's Pet Forum to keep the conversation flowing
A chance to win up to $10,000 monthly via our grant giveaway for joining live or on-demand.
💬 What's staying the same?
Thought-provoking speakers and meaningful conversations
A supportive, inspiring community that's growing stronger with every session
Same time and place: 11 am PT/2 pm ET via Zoom
Community Conversations are more than just a meeting-it's a space to connect, collaborate, and imagine new possibilities for pets and the people who love them.
Let's build this space together! Please use this thread to:
Introduce yourselves - Where are you joining us from and what does community mean to you?
Suggest future call topics
Recommend speakers or presenters
Share any ideas that would make this season even better
If you would like to make a suggestion more privately, please feel free to email me at CommunityConversations@MaddiesFund.org
So excited to be on this journey with you!
Sheila (and Ziba)
#EducationandTraining
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Sheila Kouhkan
Senior Education Specialist
Maddie's Fund
CA
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